"Okay, just to clear some things up, I'm sorry. I know you've been here longer, I've just been on some stricted sites and I guess I've been kind of grumpy around here lately, so...
Anyway, I'm a guy, just to clear up the gender issue. By the way, I didn't think that was your reply I deleted, but that's irrelevant. I'm certainly talkiing a lot to Dous, who appears to be a good mod, and I hope I will be able to cooperate well with you.

So, here is my formal appology. I'd love to see how the site once worked and would like to work with you and the others on our new project thing to take care of the site. I'll try to be less crazy and learn from the older users like you."